November 30, 2012
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Being liked is overrated. Wanting to be liked means tempering your thoughts as to not offend. Wanting to be liked means not arguing vociferously with a female peer - something that could improve and add to your ideas - for fear that they’ll be insulted or that they won’t want to be friends. Wanting to be liked means agonizing over every negative comment in an online thread, even if they’re coming from people you don’t care about and don’t think much of.

Wanting to be liked means being a supporting character in your own life, using the cues of the actors around you to determine your next line rather than your own script. It means that your self-worth will always be tied to what someone else thinks about you, forever out of your control.

And truly, living in a constant state of self-deprecation is no way to be. Humbleness does not protect you from sexism - it just makes the slights harder to see.

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From my latest at The Nation, “She Who Dies With the Most ‘Likes’ Wins?” (via jessicavalenti)

I love this so much.

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Already shared on twitter, RE SHARING|BLOGGING

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November 21, 2012
"Maybe there’s no way to create a coherent code of ethics in an institution designed to sanction some types of killing and to condemn others. Maybe that moral dissonance makes its way into every decision, distorting the military’s approach to situations that have little connection to the battlefield and creating a world in which downloading porn is condemned but there’s little incentive to call a rape a rape — let alone support the survivors, prosecute the cases properly, or change the fact that one in five military women has been sexually assaulted. Even Panetta recognizes it’s an “outrage."

Four Generals, Four Scandals, and a Sprawling Rape Case - NYmag.com / The Cut (via annfriedman)

A friend of mine was raped while serving in Iraq. She reported it, there was a sham of an investigation, nothing happened to the guy, and she was ostracized within her unit (“At least I was able to hang on for an honorable discharge,” she says now, truly happy about this in a way that only a true soldier could be).

I talked to her last week, in part because she idolized David Petraeus and I wanted to know how she was feeling about the whole thing. She was pissed that a hero of hers would do something with even a remote possibility of creating a security breach (again, a soldier to the end, and a real stickler for rules in the best way). But the more she talked, the more it sounded like what she was actually upset about was that Petraeus’ consensual sex was getting so much attention while the military’s sexual assault epidemic (ONE IN FIVE women in the military have been assaulted!) is ignored completely. “Paula Broadwell seems to mean a whole lot more to them than I ever did,” she said.

It was hard to disagree.

(via megangreenwell)

(via megangreenwell)

October 16, 2012
elisabeth:

cheatsheet:

Guess who’s playing the Super Bowl Halftime Show this year? 

oh hey girl!

YEAH!

elisabeth:

cheatsheet:

Guess who’s playing the Super Bowl Halftime Show this year? 

oh hey girl!

YEAH!

(Source: beyonce)

October 16, 2012
annfriedman:

nishachittal:

shelbyknox:

Tonight, Candy Crowley will become the first woman to moderate a presidential debate in twenty years. This moment in women’s history brought to you by 3 teen feminists from New Jersey & online organizing. This is not just the future of the movement, it’s the now!

Love this.

#ladyjournos

This.

annfriedman:

nishachittal:

shelbyknox:

Tonight, Candy Crowley will become the first woman to moderate a presidential debate in twenty years. This moment in women’s history brought to you by 3 teen feminists from New Jersey & online organizing. This is not just the future of the movement, it’s the now!

Love this.

#ladyjournos

This.

October 12, 2012

red3blog:

Storyboard for Paul Ryan’s new Old Spice commercial.

Yeah.

September 21, 2012

(Source: lucilleandmitt)

September 21, 2012
sircle:

Archimède, Simon-Louis Boquet, 1752

sircle:

Archimède, Simon-Louis Boquet, 1752

(Source: antonio-m)

September 13, 2012
salon:

“He was the first man I’d met who wasn’t afraid of me.”-Hillary Clinton, “When Bill Met Hillary”

salon:

“He was the first man I’d met who wasn’t afraid of me.”

-Hillary Clinton, “When Bill Met Hillary”

(via aminatou)

September 6, 2012
azizisbored:

HOLY SHIT. Richard Linklater recently wrapped Before Midnight, the sequel to Before Sunrise and Before Sunset. 
These movies are beyond incredible. Before Sunset in particular is one of my favorite movies ever. And I weirdly watched it quite a few times for inspiration while writing material for my Buried Alive standup tour. 
If you haven’t seen these movies, go do it. Can’t wait for the next one. 



Preferring Before Sunset to Before Sunrise?!?!  Shocker.  I did go see Before Sunset in the theater alone because I was such a fan of Before Sunrise.  I also bought Julie Delpy’s album.

azizisbored:

HOLY SHIT. Richard Linklater recently wrapped Before Midnight, the sequel to Before Sunrise and Before Sunset. 

These movies are beyond incredible. Before Sunset in particular is one of my favorite movies ever. And I weirdly watched it quite a few times for inspiration while writing material for my Buried Alive standup tour. 

If you haven’t seen these movies, go do it. Can’t wait for the next one. 

Preferring Before Sunset to Before Sunrise?!?! Shocker. I did go see Before Sunset in the theater alone because I was such a fan of Before Sunrise. I also bought Julie Delpy’s album.

August 21, 2012
annfriedman:

GIF OF THE DAY.

annfriedman:

GIF OF THE DAY.

(Source: paxamericana)

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